So your child is getting married - cue the happy tears! Now begins the all-important quest of finding the perfect mother of the bride (or groom) dress. While the style and fit of the dress are obviously huge factors, color often becomes the trickiest part of the decision-making process. You want to look stunning but also blend beautifully with the wedding aesthetic, not compete with it. Let’s break it all down and take the stress out of finding your dream shade.
Step One: Know the Wedding Palette
Before you start trying on dresses, check in with the couple or the wedding planner about the wedding color scheme. Are they going for soft neutrals, deep jewel tones, pastels, or bold hues? Having this info will help guide you toward colors that harmonize with it rather than clash.
Pro tip: You don’t have to match exactly - in fact, it's better if you don’t! Aim to complement the wedding colors with tones that enhance the overall vibe without looking like you’re part of the bridal party.
Step Two: Consider the Season
Seasons can subtly influence your dress color choice:
Spring/Summer weddings lean into blush, soft pinks, dusty blue, sage, and light neutrals.
Fall/Winter weddings embrace deeper hues like burgundy, navy, emerald, or even metallics like gold and pewter.
Of course, these aren’t strict rules - just helpful hints if you’re on the fence!
Step Three: Coordinate, Don’t Clone
If there are two mothers involved in the wedding, it’s always a thoughtful gesture to chat with each other about your dress colors. You don’t need to match, but it helps to coordinate tones and formality levels to ensure you both look cohesive in family photos. Think combinations like dusty rose and champagne or navy and silver - different colors, but harmonious.
Step Four: Choose What Flatters YOU
Here’s the deal: you should absolutely love how you look in your dress. If a specific color doesn’t feel “you,” don’t force it - even if it’s technically on-theme. Stick to tones that complement your skin tone and make you feel confident. A dress that makes you feel good is always the right choice!
Now for the fun part. Here are some of our favorite dresses in colors that are as stylish as they are photo-ready!
Christina Wu Elegance – Style 17188
This slimming, long-sleeved V-neck gown shimmers with sequins and features flattering side draping with a chic front slit. Ideal for a fall or winter wedding, this jewel tone adds richness without overpowering!
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Alexander By Daymor – Style 3049
If the wedding is going to be more on the formal, fancier side, this fit-and-flare satin gown is your answer. With its off-the-shoulder neckline, quarter-length sleeves, and floral accents, it’s timeless and romantic - perfect for spring garden weddings.
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Alexander By Daymor – Style 3075
Sleek and graceful, this A-line mother of the bride dress features an asymmetrical neckline and dramatic fabric detailing on one shoulder. Whatever color you choose, it’s a sophisticated option that suits almost any season or setting.
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Alexander By Daymor – Style 3083
If you love a little elegant drama, this cranberry red gown is a dream. With delicate ruching, a curve-hugging bodice, and contrasting satin and matte textures, it’s both festive and flattering - just right for holiday or winter weddings!
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At Lorraine Nicole’s Formals, we love helping moms shine on the big day. Whether you’re drawn to rich jewel tones, soft pastels, or classic neutrals, we’re here to help you find a gown that looks and feels incredible. Book your appointment today and let’s explore colors, styles, and silhouettes that celebrate you!